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How can you tell if you are with the wrong person?

ImageHow do we know if  we are with the wrong person? Everyone wants to be with someone whom they can be with for the rest of their  life  and   have friend they can turn to in case of hardships or struggles in life,  and the question is, “Are we with the right person?”.  We can only tell that not only by the length that you have together, but rather if you are benefiting from it. Your life before can be a comparison if you want to weigh things out and see the quality of life you are presently living . Quality in a sense that while you are with that person “Are you missing the goodness of how a happy  life should be?” or ” Is this really what I wanted my life to be?”. It’s not wrong to say that love is blind but to contradict that people should learn to be an observant and know a person more before letting him be part of your life.  when it comes in choosing friends how can we tell if they are the wrong ones? Just do the time travel and see what  were their participation in your past especially during hard times. Their presence also shows how they truly care for you. .  A true friend knows you even at  the lowest point of your life. A real friend knows you more than your sister that she can even tell if you are faking a smile, or can’t take things anymore. When it comes to choosing lifetime partner how can we tell if they are the wrong ones? It’ nice to have someone who can fill the gaps between our fingers, but are we really sure if that person is the right one for us.  If you’re one of those “Love is blind” believers you need to think again and change that open your eyes of what is presently happening to your own life. If someone sucks the happiness out of you for the “nth” time better let that person pack his things and get out of your life. The personality and the way of living of a person can also determine if he is the wrong one. For example is a person who has many vices like alcohol and drug abuse you know for an instance that he would do no good to you (but if you don’t feel like living go ahead). Living with someone who can leave a negative impact to your life is like getting a knife that will slash your wrist. Sometimes it better to live alone than to be miserable with someone. I know it’s difficult because you might be thinking of the good old times you had together  but in then end all you can say is, “It’s worth it” and accept the fact that things will not be as it used to be and you have to get out of the situation. Just remember to surround yourself with positivity and never let someone pull you down.  Nobody has the right to hurt you if you won’t let them. But on the other hand if you think you can’t live without that person regardless of their effect to your life then it’s time for you to change that certain person to become a better person and it will take you a lot of patience and motivation to do that.

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